More Than a Survey: Creating a Two-Way Conversation with Families
November 21, 2025
We spend countless hours focused on strategic plans, budgets, and operational efficiency, but we cannot design a truly effective structure for student success without on-the-ground intelligence–and that intelligence comes directly from the families we serve.
In the Oxford School District, it’s incredibly important to us to gather direct, unfiltered feedback from parents. Gathering feedback is more than a customer service gesture; it’s collecting essential data that ensures our policies and programs are aligned with community reality and student needs.
Why Comments Matter More Than Survey Scores
Every district uses an annual or semi-annual parent survey, but too often, the focus stops at the satisfaction score. We challenge our team to go deeper.
We tell our families that while the scores matter, the comments are more important to us than the numbers. Why? Because comments provide context about how they are experiencing us and our work. In fact, the survey comments help us determine what measures we can take to build trust and establish open communication channels.
A simple Likert score might tell us what needs improvement (e.g., bus transportation is inadequate), but the narrative provides the crucial why and how (e.g., the current stop location for one route is a safety hazard for elementary students walking home). This context allows our team to move from vague dissatisfaction to generating actionable, user-centered solutions. The survey comments help us determine what measure we can take to build trust, establish open communication channels, and solve authentic problems.
My cabinet members, school principals, and I read every single comment, and it’s important our families know that. This commitment is the first step in building a genuine partnership and demonstrating that their input is valued.
Making Feedback a Two-Way Street
To maintain a responsive and high-performing system, we ensure the channels for feedback are wide open and easy for parents to access. We encourage them to utilize three core avenues to communicate with us:
- The Parent Satisfaction Survey: Parents can use this structured opportunity twice a year to provide detailed, contextual comments on everything from bus routes to innovative learning opportunities.
- Direct Email: If parents have an idea, see an immediate barrier, or have an innovative suggestion, I invite them to send an email directly to me or any cabinet member. We serve over 4,800 students, but I’ll always make time to respond to family emails. This communication channel gives us instant feedback and is generally utilized for high-priority issues.
- School Principals: We remind families that their principals are their most immediate advocates. They are closest to the school-based operation and are an essential asset in making sure we’re providing the best for students.
From Idea to Innovation
One of the most powerful examples of parent and student feedback shaping our district is curriculum and course development.
Many of our popular additions–like our pottery class or our new drone and AI classes–originated as student ideas relayed to administrators. We view these ideas as valuable market demand signals, but we don’t implement them without forethought.
When we receive a new course idea, our central office team takes two things into consideration to ensure we’re creating diverse and enriching learning opportunities:
- Determine the scope. We ask if this idea requires a district policy change or is a school-based decision.
- Align with workforce needs. We validate new course ideas against workforce demands in our community. For example, our AI course grew directly out of examining local and state workforce needs and strong community partnerships that ensure the curriculum is relevant.
This intentional feedback loop ensures that every decision we make is strategic, sustainable, and directly prepares students for success.
This intentional feedback loop ensures that every decision we make is strategic, sustainable, and directly prepares students for success.
The Essential Truth About Partnership
Yes, sometimes we hear feedback we don’t want to hear.
But we’ve learned that truly, that’s the measure of a strong, resilient system, a system that can absorb criticism without compromising its commitment to growth. If we see the survey for what it is, a diagnostic tool, and we commit to following up on the results and closing the feedback loop through a transparent, district-wide survey rollout process, we’ll demonstrate our commitment to partnership.
When we listen actively to concerns and strategically act on them, we prove to parents that they are partners in building an exceptional school system, and we elevate discussions from complaints to collaborative solutions. This process ensures our district policies reflect the priorities of our families, not just the assumptions of our administration.
How are you using narrative data from your family surveys to build the next strategic priorities in your district?