From Burnout to Balance: Building Cultures of Support

December 03, 2025

I once walked into a staff room where three teachers were sitting in silence, each looking completely drained. The room felt heavy. Then one teacher broke the silence with a small joke. Within minutes, the tension shifted. They began sharing frustrations, laughter, and eventually ideas. That moment captured a profound truth: educators don’t just need policies or PD. They need each other.

The Isolation Trap

Burnout thrives in isolation. When teachers feel isolated in their struggles, they’re more likely to internalize blame and less likely to seek help. Secondary-traumatic stress compounds this isolation: many educators assume they should “tough it out” rather than burden colleagues with their stories. However, trauma-informed leadership acknowledges that healing occurs within a community.

The Science of Connection

Neuroscience confirms what we know intuitively: connection heals. Oxytocin, often called the “bonding hormone,” is released through positive social interaction. It lowers stress, boosts trust, and counteracts cortisol's effects. In short, when we connect with others, our bodies literally recover from stress.

Visual overview of the Tripod peer-support cycle.

Tripod Systems and Peer Support

In our district, we introduced the Tripod model, a simple, structured peer-support system. Three educators gather briefly:

  • One speaks honestly about a challenge.
  • One listens actively.
  • One observes and reflects.

The roles rotate, ensuring balance. This system does not require administrators or formal facilitators, making it scalable and sustainable.

Teachers report feeling seen, validated, and lighter after these sessions. Over time, Tripods create micro-cultures of safety that ripple into larger staff culture.

Practical Ways to Build Cultures of Support

  1. Identify Wellness Champions: Every school has staff who naturally support others. Naming and empowering them creates informal networks of care.
  2. Normalize Check-Ins: Begin meetings with a quick check-in question: “What’s one word for how you’re arriving today?” This sets a tone of authenticity and signals that feelings are welcome.
  3. Create Safe Physical Spaces: Staff wellness rooms, even small ones, offer a quiet space to regulate. It’s a tangible message that staff well-being matters.
  4. Encourage Shared Rituals: Celebrating birthdays, writing thank-you notes, or having coffee together on Fridays may seem small, but these rituals help build a sense of belonging.
  5. Model Vulnerability as Leaders: When leaders admit, “This week has been hard,” it opens the door for staff to be real too. Support cultures are built simultaneously from both top-down and bottom-up approaches.

The Rooted Resiliency Approach

In my work, I often talk about being rooted—grounded enough to withstand storms. Building resiliency is not about avoiding stress but about creating systems (like Tripods, check-ins, and rituals) that let us bend without breaking. When schools embed resilience practices into their culture, educators stop merely surviving and begin thriving.

Conclusion: Belonging as Prevention

Burnout prevention isn’t just self-care. It’s community care. It’s the culture we cultivate every day in staff rooms, classrooms, and leadership practices. When educators feel they belong—not just as professionals, but as whole human beings—they can sustain the work of caring for children.

 


 

What supportive practices work in your school? I’d love to hear and share your ideas in future blogs, please reach out to me at rbennett@sau16.org

This post is part of an ongoing series exploring key strategies for preventing burnout and setting boundaries. See the first blog post here and the second blog post here.